November 19, 2020

18 Things To Raise A More Confident Child

his post is based on an article from acclaimed psychologist Carl Pickhardt.

Did you know that less than 1% of youth players reach the professional ranks?

You probably did, so do coaches. We state the obvious when we say that to break into these ranks you need to be beyond exceptional. We know all of this and we are objective enough to know that the chances of this happening are very, very slim. Yet it seems at times that we are willing to sacrifice it all for 3 points on Saturday. No matter the damage. We should remember that youth sports are about developing better players and better people, and that winning is most frequently not a good parameter of good coaching.

Carl Pickhardt, a psychologist and author of 15 parenting books, says on his article   ’18 Things to Raise a More Confident Child ‘  that a kid who lacks confidence will be reluctant to try new or challenging things because they’re scared of failing or disappointing others. This can end up holding them back later in life and prevent them from having a successful career.

This article   invites all readers to self-reflect on:

  1. How do you do at tip #1 “appreciate effort, no matter if they win or lose?” and tip #8 “never criticize their performance”?
  2. How can we still give honest, realistic feedback while still implementing these strategies?
  3. In tip #4, the author encourages us to allow kids to “act their age”, are we doing this or demanding that they be ‘more serious’ and ‘act like grown ups’?
  4. How might you implement Tip #9 “Treat mistakes as building blocks for learning” and tip #13 “praise them when they deal with adversity”?

Thank you Parents for taking the time to read and reflect over these questions. You’re doing it for your children.

Rush UPSL Men 1st Team

February 4, 2025
Suisun City Rush 1 Men's Team: A Season of Growth and Unity As the season comes to a close, we at Suisun City Rush reflect on our inaugural journey with immense pride and excitement. Our Men's First Team has completed its first season, and what a season it has been! Comprising primarily of a young and eager group of players, our focus was firmly set on player development and providing opportunities for growth. A Season of Learning and Achievement Throughout the season, we experienced a mix of outcomes—losing some games, drawing others, and celebrating memorable victories. Each match was a stepping stone, contributing to the players' growth and helping them mature both individually and as a team. The camaraderie and bonds formed have turned our team into a close-knit family, and that, in itself, is a victory worth celebrating. Continuing the Journey Our commitment to development doesn't end with the season. Training will continue until the second week of December, ensuring our players maintain their momentum and fitness. Come January, we will be back in action, gearing up for the Spring 2025 season with renewed vigor and enthusiasm. A New Approach: No Tryouts Needed In line with our philosophy of nurturing talent, we are thrilled to announce that the majority of our players will be staying on to prepare for the upcoming season. At Suisun City Rush, we believe in consistent development over traditional tryouts, fostering an environment where players can grow without the pressure of selection processes. This approach has proven successful, and we are excited to see our players continue to flourish. Looking Ahead As we look forward to the Spring season, we are eager to build on the foundations laid this year. With a solid core of returning players and our ongoing commitment to development, the future is bright for Suisun City Rush 1 Men's Team. Thank you to all our supporters, families, and community members who have been with us every step of the way. Your encouragement and belief in our vision have been invaluable. Here's to another season of growth, unity, and success!

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